Distorted Minds In The 21st Century

Today, i met a little boy and this happened...

Boy: Are you a [his race] or Chinese?
Me: I'm a Chinese. Why?
Boy: You're a Chinese?
Me: Yes.
Boy: Oh, then you cannot enter heaven. You'll have to go to hell.

I don't blame the boy one bit for saying what he said. He's prolly 9 at most. What does he know? What shocked me was the fact that there are adults out there who are passing on such ridiculous information to innocent children and giving them a wrong perception of life. Shame on them.

When You Give, You Will Be Given

If there's one thing i love about working where i work now, it's the amazing CSR opportunities i get. There's just something about giving back to society that makes one's day.

And to the Indian auntie and Carl, who head the feeding centre at St. John's church, i take my hats off to you. Doing what you do is not easy and certainly not a profitable job, but yet you do it anyway. You are a glimmer of hope in a world where almost everyone is all about making money. Thank you.

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Doing Diwali Cina-Style

Instead of chicken varuval and murukku, my Deepavali this year was spent with dim sum, chicken rice and the best salt-baked chicken i've ever had. And because my family take food seriously, we didn't want to settle for just any dim sum or chicken. We endured a two-hour train ride to Ipoh, ate till our hearts content, and hopped on another two-hour journey home seven hours later.



Because we didn't drive there, we had to rely on taxis and our feet to get us around. At one point, we walked for more than an hour trying to find our way from the dim sum restaurant to the soya bean place and then to Ipoh Parade. Half way through, some of us gave up and caught a cab instead. Those who braved the long walk to the mall were greeted by Daddy, who immediately shook everyone's hands and said, "Congratulations. You've made it to the next round of the Amazing Race". Haha! I never knew Dad is an Allan Wu-Phil Keoghan wannabe.

During our early chicken-rice dinner, we made up for all the kilos lost while walking. Everyone headed to the train station with bigger bellies and declared that they've had enough food to last until the next day. But of course, being Malaysians, we live to eat. A couple of hours later, we ordered nasi lemak from the train's cafeteria. So much for being stuffed.




Having arrived at the train station an hour earlier, we had time to kill and popped into the nearby Majestic Station Hotel for a visit. Built in 1917, it houses a really old elevator with stairs circling it and has a hotel room corridor (pictured on the right) unlike any others i've seen. Sure, it has great history but a hotel that has been around since the World War and prolly housed many war officials (both good and evil i suppose)? No thank you. But if antiques, rustic charm and ghosts are your cup of tea, then knock yourself out.



Till the next excursion, tootaloo! Funny how it sounds like "to the loo", which was what some of us did after this picture was taken. Hey, all the chicken and siew mai have to go somewhere right?


I Depend On Me

There have been times when a few acquaintances and male strangers have said something that i find unacceptable.

"Aiyah, just find a boyfriend and get him to pay for your holiday lah."
"Suruh lah pakwe you bayar."
"I want to marry a rich man so that i can buy all the branded goods in the mall."

All i hear is, "I am a useless woman who cannot make my own money and only know how to spend my boyfriend's money." Excuse me, but i am capable of earning a living too.

It's more than fine with me when a man offers to pay for something... but not all the friggin time, and you don't exploit his wealth - he's a boyfriend, not a bank. I can never wrap my head around the idea of constantly spending a partner's money. Don't they feel useless for not being able to pay for their own unnecessary purchases? If they can afford it but aren't willing to pay for it, don't they feel ashamed for being so selfish?

A relationship is a two-person venture and when you want him to give, you should expect to do the same too. You don't just take. The person who coined the phrase, "His money is my money and my money is my money" is a selfish bitch who will live a miserable life when her man comes to his senses and dumps her sorry ass.

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